Going Wild #2

finally also, i have finished reading "Wild at heart"!!
on 21 Feb 2011. since Dec 2009!!!

its really help me alot! finding my past, my inner feeling, hurts, dreams, value... of a boy... i am unfinished man, with man cover, but innerly am a boy... fatherless.

only realized so much that my dad did not show me how to be a man, never affirm me with what i have done right...
i can only remember, i learn that statement "everything u must try 1st" from him (but he mean food, not to adventure), and learnt some knife skill (cut food) from him.

i started to read another book, [the way to wild heart], it is a map that guide me thru the masculine journey.

God, please allow me to venture with u, my inner boy needs You! you are my Father! please affrim me, hold me, approve me, strengthen me! thank You Lord! in Jesus name! Amen!

to be the knight, the king, the lover! not poser, covert, etc.

leadership in blue jeans #4

Finally I have finished the book!!! July 2010 till Feb 2011!

Before i conclude, these are some of the lessons of the few chapters:

P90

Teaching not = developing

Leadership not education, but is a verb

P92

Build system to accomplish vision

P95

Leadership is not marathon, its relay race

P99

Raise the nx gen, today’s world belongs to nx gen! solve with their ways.

Change is a must!

P101

Live your stage, which is your life! Nothing can escape!

P104

“Just do it” - Knowledge vs Action.

A person go to café and only read the menu, praising the menu having wonderful idea, food list, design but don’t order food, and all his intention is just to read the menu… no points!!

P107

Cast vision to the local leaders. Let them fund their own resource, vision, team, paths. To build ownership and experience with God!

Yes, the chapters end with author’s life principles, which also mine, long waited in my heart but it just can’t make it a statement!

1. Being a secure leader!
2. Making the disciples!

MAN series - attraction

How To Attract Pretty Women

http://www.artofseductions.com/how-to-attract-pretty-women/

1. be a man!
"The most gentle people in the world are macho males, people who are confident in their masculinity and have a feeling of well-being in themselves. They don’t have to kick in doors, mistreat women, or make fun of gays."

2. Be the gentle man
pay attn and be real in ur emotion (good or bad)

- You know what you want
- You do what you say
- You say what you think
- You’re true to your word
- You can stand your ground
- You have options

3. dont care too much

4. Humor shows strength
"If you can make a woman laugh, it means you can make her feel good. To give good feelings to others, you have to root them within yourself first. Start seeing the good things that happen to you every day. Develop a positive attitude, and wherever you go, seek to amuse yourself."

5. Be proud of yourself, and always stand up for yourself
Remember the old catchphrase: pretty women are used to being approached. Most men will do so in an insecure, nervous manner, not really knowing what to say or trying to show off their feathers. The above tips should teach you how to attract pretty women instead of boring them to death

leadership in blue jeans #3

suCcesS vs signiFicanT

page 81.

em, everyone trying to be successful... then how do u define success?

achieving sthg means success? it is just one event of success, but no longterm effects. it is self-focused achievement...

being significant - focus on building others, helping the ppl to be successful - other-focused.